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You’ve done everything you’re supposed to do…
You’ve checked all the boxes…
But what do you REALLY have to show for it?
Are you really happy with your results?
If you’re like most middle-aged Christian family men, chances are you can’t really answer those questions.
Things should be pretty good, right?
And here you are – you’ve done everything right and you have what you thought a real man, a good man, a Christian man is supposed to – the job, the house, the wife, the family, the faith…
You excelled in school, you worked your butt off to get a successful career going, you live in a good neighborhood, you’ve built stability and growth in your professional life…
At the same time…it feels like something is missing – internally?
Like the fire that once consumed your very soul years ago, when you were in the “prime” of your life, has been extinguished…replaced by frustration and the exhausting monotony of working your fingers to the bone to fuel a materialistic lifestyle that no longer fulfills you?
But do you know who you really are?
More importantly…
Do you know who you’re becoming?
Do you wake up every morning, look at yourself in the mirror, and question:
– What’s my purpose in life?
– Am I even happy with everything I’ve accomplished?
– Am I doing what I love?
– Have I become the man I said I’d be?
– Am I showing up as my best – for my family and for myself?
– Is this what God really wants of me?
Or are you merely settling for “good enough”?
Coasting through each day, lethargic, dejected, frustrated…
Playing the victim…and always placing the blame of your circumstances on someone – or something – else.
If only my wife would stop nagging…
If only my kids would stop screaming…
If only my boss gave me that raise…
If only I took more time off…
Do you think God made you in his image so you could coast through life living an imaginary “If only” existence?
Or does He expect more of you?
Do YOU expect more of yourself?
And the problem just gets worse by the day.
Just consider that..
– The suicide rate for men is 3.5x higher than that of women
– The divorce rate in the U.S hovers above 51%
– Men are 3x more likely to become alcohol and drug dependent (not to mention adult website usage is at all time highs) – masking and hiding their problems rather than opening up, asking for help in solving them
Yet considering society’s mandate that “Real men” are somehow capable of handling everything by themselves, men are less likely than ever before to reach out for help.
Instead, we numb ourselves to reality with pleasure inducing addictions.
Porn, social media, video games, Netflix originals, alcohol, gambling, and even chasing the next dollar have become the sources of our respite.
But their shallow promises only exacerbate the issue. These vices do little to further what matters most in our lives and nothing to solve the deeper problems men increasingly face.
So let’s clear something up right now…
You’re not weak.
You’re not alone.
Nobody is faulting you for wanting MORE.
But do you really want more things?
Clearly the material life isn’t cutting it.
Or is it that you want to BE MORE…
– A more loving and committed husband…
– A more present and connected father…
– A more dedicated and faithful follower of Christ…
– A more passionate and fulfilled employee or business owner…
– A more giving and loyal friend…
– A more confident, happy, purpose-fulfilled version of yourself…
A man who takes full ownership of the journey he’s taken, where he is now, and the life he has yet to live – and holds himself accountable to ensuring that every decision he makes, relationship he’s in, challenge he has, success he celebrates – is in alignment with the life God wants for him.
Ask yourself…
If I keep doing what I’ve always done, do I really expect anything to change?
Maybe your relationship is on the brink of ending and the woman you once promised to love and cherish has become the very source of your unhappiness, discontentment, and frustration.
Maybe workaholism and the constant pursuit of “more” has left you empty, depleted, and alone. You’ve spent years, maybe even decades, pursuing “success” and now you find yourself wondering when you go to bed at night… “is this really it?”
Maybe your life is working…on the outside. But you no longer feel the fire, passion, and power you once had. You’ve become sedated…unaware of how much more your life could be.
